7.28.2008



donna dejarnatt, 1924-2008

my grandmother was a pioneer, an activist, a free spirit, a fireball, a burst of creativity with hobbit hair. she was steadfast and unconditional in her love. she radiated wisdom and insisted on prudence. she had tact and patience. she taught everyone something.

i remember really, really looking forward to spending a week at her house in willow grove in the summers. i knew we'd do art projects all day and then walk to the beach and get prickly plants in our socks. we would make s'mores in the firepit by grandpa's tree and bats might fly around the house. we'd watch boats go by and wear old ratty clothes. i'd type on her typewriter and pretend to learn to sew. i opened random cabinets in her studio, upstairs, by picking through layers of cobwebs. she was confused why kraft macaroni and cheese contained no actual cheese. the only thing i didn't like was going to the grocery store in town with her, because everyone would know mrs. dejarnatt and stop to chat-- i wanted her all to myself.

she will be so sincerely, sorely missed by us all.

7.17.2008

eastern shore/delmarva

summer/campus life continues to bop along at a rapid pace. i've been giving two tours a day during my morning shift in admissions...eek...but really enjoying my increased responsibilities (designing handouts for the career development office, proofreading proposals for the graduate studies dept, scheduling interviews in admissions, etc.)

last weekend was spent exploring the delmarva peninsula, a marshy, largely rural region encompassing the three states in its name. the chesapeake bay divides the "eastern shore" from the rest of maryland and virginia; one typically arrives via the insanely long bay bridge by annapolis. last friday evening i left baltimore with three of my good friends; we made it to the town of onancock, virginia, in about four hours. the next morning we backtracked a bit, going north and then west to crisfield, maryland. along the way we saw a surprising amount of chicken "farms"-- similar to the ones described in fast food nation, owned by the tyson corporation-- that smelled absolutely horrible. we took an hour-long ($25?!) ferry from the sleepy, crab-themed town to smith island, a place i learned about two years ago after reading tom horton's an island out of time (which happened to be the assigned reading for all students entering goucher in 2006). what i learned about the island seeped into the back of my brain until recently, when a fabulous folklorist friend/mentor of mine, elaine eff, told me about her work there. she helped create a museum to preserve and stimulate the unique, and somewhat odd traditions of the island. the population-300 archipelago of marshy land has been almost entirely isolated since a few families from england established a post there in the early 1600s. the chesapeake has been the lifesource for generations of smith islanders, its crabs providing food, opportunity for trade, and a focus for their culture. the watermen lead a weathering lifestyle that less and less chose to lead. women of the island are famed for baking 10-layer cakes and picking crabs faster than you can imagine. the united methodist church acts, unofficially, as the government, social scene, and driving force for many islanders. it is a very interesting and very endangered place; elaine estimated that a combination of erosion and rapid depopulation (many of the younger islanders move to the main land to study and find work, seldom returning to the isolated, traditional community) will leave smith island bare within our lifetime.

the ferry schedule left us only two hours on the island, but on smith island time passes so slowly that we felt reasonably acquainted with it by the end of our afternoon. we ate a lunch of cake (first) and, for my companions, incredibly fresh crabcakes. we followed lunch with a trip to elaine's exquisitely composed museum, which we sped through near the end in order to allot enough time to wandering around the neighborhood of ewell. some of the houses looked artsy, most neatly maintained, and a few were definitely fixer-uppers. we didn't see as many families as we had hoped; however, there were several other tourists walking around. i honestly cannot fathom living in a place so far removed from mainstream society. i am fascinated by it but would personally go crazy after a few days. it is no great mystery how the church holds so much sway over the island residents; the church plays many roles, as mentioned above.

our lovely and relatively insect-free afternoon was completed with the ferry ride back to crisfield and the drive, again, down route 13 to onancock. our friend sally shared her family home with us, acting as a gracious host and allowing us to enjoy her 300-year-old house. the building itself was a serious highlight of the weekend. 300 years old!! that is outrageous. she said they have found native american arrowheads on the property, as well as a mortar and pestle-type tool. traders and other settlers must have come down the "creek" and staked out the land; her six acres are today covered with the spacious house, a guest house, a gorgeous garden and many many rows of feed corn. her parents have done a marvelous job of restoring and maintaining the place, filling it with artifacts from their world travels, interesting local art, and thousands of books. it felt so good to be in a real home, to cook wholesome, slow food, and to relax without checking my email or voicemail at all. i can't thank sally enough for having us.

we spent sunday morning around the house and then ventured into the town of onancock. once a bustling trading town, the decline of the railroad industry has left it quaint and also a bit isolated. we window-shopped the main street, unable to go into any stores because not a single one was open on sunday morning. we then made a stop at her grandmother's house in town and had the pleasure of meeting her. again, the change of pace was refreshing for us all.

beach traffic wasn't too bad and we made it back to baltimore just in time for a giant, almost violent, thunderstorm. it was a very memorable excursion that i will remember for quite a while!





7.08.2008

new blog!

hey- i started a new blog, mostly targeted at current goucher students, to connect people to baltimore city. you can check it out at www.charmcityconfidential.blogspot.com. please let me know if you have any suggestions or ideas.

7.06.2008

charming city

i can't believe it is already the sixth of july! this summer is flying by. our fourth of july was rainy but turned out to be a quirky adventure. there were a few fireworks shows going on simultaneously, which was a bit off-putting, but we had a good time. last weekend i went to harrisburg, pa to bid goodbye to my good friend maura before she heads off to south africa for a few months. work is going well-- i really like working in admissions-- and i am always happy to spend time with my friends in the area.

i went out to coffee with some of my roommates this evening and they balked at the thought that they'll be leaving in less than a month. the whole point of the summer was to take advantage of not having work in the evenings and being able to explore, but by the time we all come home from work and manage to cook dinner in the common kitchen shared by about 50 people, we're all pooped.

living on campus over the summer is really quite strange. the campus is eerily quiet in many respects but absolutely abuzz in others-- such as construction. they are gutting and totally revamping a lot of the dorms, getting rid of asbestos-y carpets and putting in networked sprinklers. the bunny population seems to be out of control in the summer, and fireflies are in great abundance. working in the administrative building has opened up many new channels of previously unknown (to me) information-- people, corners, paperwork. there are always faces i've never seen, despite the small size of the school. i've heard it can get lonely over the summer here, but it always seems like there's too much to do and so many people to see. i'm not sure i'll accomplish all that i want to this summer.

i think i'm going to look back on this summer and think about how enjoyable it was to work during the day and hang out with a bunch of close friends every night. i thoroughly enjoy my weekends in hampden, spending time with my friends who have now entered the real world of work and apartments.

other things that make up this summer: going out for coffee on saturday mornings, going to the waverly farmer's market, coloring my giant map of baltimore neighborhoods, impromptu thunderstorms, grilling veggie burgers, waving down the soft city ice cream truck, trading cardigans with my roommates, walking to the grocery store, taking the light rail, marveling at the charm of rowhouses, talking about denmark.